Will I burn in hell if I choose my boyfriend over my parents?
Will I ever be able to live happy after my marriage because apparently the one who makes his/her parents cry remains unhappy forever!
Will I be able to give my whole to my new family because there will always be a piece of my heart that belongs to my parents!
A girl’s perspective
Yes, I am in love with a guy from past 5 years. I have seen some of the best and worst moments together with him. We have still stuck by each other through thick and thin. Can I leave him just like that just because my parents are saying so?
My parents have love and nurtured me from past 24 years. They were there when I couldn’t sleep at 4 a.m. because of illness. My mom didn’t sleep that night because she was busy caressing my forehead all through the night. My dad couldn’t sleep because how could he! His only daughter was unwell!
How can I let go off my parents because there has not been a single day in my 24 years of existence that I have slept without them. They have always been there. Will I be able to survive all by myself in a new environment?
Will it be easy to let go off a guy who has been nothing but just perfect with me all these years. Can my parents guarantee that I will be better off without him?
Are society’s norms bigger than your child’s happiness?
Will it be fair for the guy if I leave him? What was I doing with him all these years if I knew my parents would never agree? Maybe I thought my parents love me, they will sure as hell agree to my choice of groom.
Ma, if I decide to leave your home will I be able to live without you? You have taught me everything but not this, na?
Papa, he cares for me just like you do, sometimes even better than you. I know I will be happy with him. He makes me feel secure just like you do! You have fulfilled all my demands all my life, this is the last one, I promise!
I will always love you no matter what but I will never be able to live peacefully if you guys will behave so irrationally!
We have love and nurtured her all these years and how dare she think of a guy who has been around just for little while?
There is something awfully wrong with our daughter. Probably that guy has done some black magic on her! How can our beloved daughter gets estranged to us like this!
We have provided nothing but the best for her but all she has brought is disgust to our family.
We will never let her get married to that pathetic guy as our daughter deserves prince charming with a fairytale life in place!
What will people think? How will our relatives react? No one will ever talk to us just because of our daughter. She is such a disgrace!
It is better if she leaves him. He anyways doesn’t deserve our precious daughter!
You will never be able to live peacefully with that guy. He will leave you for some whore or would kill you! We care for you; he is just using you for his benefit.
If you get married to him that means you will be dead for us. We will never see your goddamn face again!
You should die! At least people won’t disgrace us because of your so called love marriage!
Someone tell me what to do?