Well first of all let’s start with who is the right guy?
In my terms right guy would be the one who completes your life just like a missing piece of puzzle. As clichéd as it may sound but he is the one who will make all the wait worthwhile and who will make you feel why it never worked out with anyone else!
So a question for you!
Do you have that guy in your life right now?
If your answer is yes then my dear you have hit a jackpot! Hold onto him for as long as possible.
If your answer is no then sweetheart, hold on a little longer! You will find him sooner than later!
How to find the one?
Now that is an age old question but with no concrete answer! As Madhuri from Dil to pagal hai movie says, “wo kahi bhi ho sakta hai” (he could be anywhere!) 😛
So don’t lose hope just yet!
Live your life and be the Ms.Right for yourself and he might just come along!
Try to be independent on your own terms. Girls who are self sufficient are always more confident and always more attractive!
So now coming back to my first question, why is it so important?
If you are an independent woman who has lived life on her own terms then it doesn’t seem that much important but if you are living in a country like India where most of the parents still like to take life altering decision like marriage of their sons and daughters then it is very important!
The right guy becomes a pillar of strength for a bride during initial and very crucial years in her new home.
As I am newly married myself and now I have realised how much my guy does for me on a daily basis and how much he tries for me to get adjusted in the new environment.
If it wasn’t for him, I don’t think I would have been able to live properly as a girl’s life changes radically after marriage. If you guy is supportive then things become a lot easier and god forbid if he is not then things can get pretty messy!
I am not being regressive here and not telling you to be completely dependent on your guy but if you have found the right guy then just cherish him and he will probably do the same or more for you in return!