It is the last day of the year! Everyone is contemplating on the year gone by, let’s all sit back, take a break and just stop judging people! Let’s make this world a better place to live in. Let’s start with ourselves first and the world will automatically become a better place.
Let’s get started with the post, stop judging and just be happy…
Judging a person who can’t speak English properly
Okay! I admit. This is me! I judge people and I correct them almost 95% of the time. I feel like it is my moral responsibility, well it is not and I need to get that as soon as possible. We are living in India where 31 official languages are recognised (Yes I googled!) and we are still obsessing over one language which is definitely unfair to billions of citizens of India who are not well versed with it!
So all of us grammar Nazis out there, let us all stop judging people who use your instead of you’re!
You should know how to cook if you are a girl
I have grown up in an environment where I have heard elders say, learn to cook, you are a girl! How will you manage after marriage? Needless to say, some of the best known chefs of the world are guys! Everyone should know how to cook irrespective of the gender. If I’ll have a son ever, I will teach him everything and cooking comes first. After all, everyone needs food, right?
Boys and girls can just be friends
Common you guys, just because certain people of opposite sex hang out all the time, it does not mean that they are secretly looking to hook up! Give them a break. Stop ogling and presuming things as they might just be friends! Even if they are dating, it is their business and not yours.
Women can’t be good drivers
Oh yes they can be and even better than you sweetheart! Stop obsessing over your little self! Girls can parallel park just as efficiently if not better than you!
You can’t wear red lippie if you are unmarried
Because auntis will stare beta, what will people think? If a mere dash of red on my lips can boost up my confidence then why wouldn’t I wear it? If the neighbourhood auntis don’t have anything else to talk about then my red lips will at least brighten their day and give them something to talk about for the next 2 days until another girl arrives wearing shorts!
Women should bear child after marriage
What’s with people asking a newlywed girl, beta goodnews kab de rahi ho? If I conceive after 3 months, 3 years or 20 years then it is upto me and my husband. Women are not child bearing factories, if a woman does not want to have kids then it is completely okay and no one can force her to do so!
I am a guy and I can do everything
Well I am a girl and I can do everything too and even better than you darling so stop it with your silly and petty dialogues in the coming year.
Women can’t work after marriage
Does a girl’s life stop after marriage? Imagine a guy asking a girl to quit her hard earned position at work just because she got married! Does marriage give licence to the boy that he can do everything and can boss around a girl like a little puppy! No it does not! Can I girl ask the boy to leave his work and she be the bread earner of the family? I think your answer is no then why so much indifference with a girl’s career?
Loosen up guys, live and let live everyone around in 2017 and years to come…
Have a nice and non-judgemental year ahead!